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Tuesday, February 9, 2016

Mid Life Crisis for Dummies

Midlife Crisis For Dummies

Imagine you have been married for 15 years, and you perceive your spouse completely loses it.  That is an awful way of putting a mid life crisis, but, that is how it feels.  It is not really that, it just feels like your life partner woke up one day and snapped.

You have no choice.  Support. Let Go. Grow! What does this mean? Well likely the process to get to this point has been a identifiable combination of stresses over years far beyond your marriage.  All you can do is show your support. If they want to move out help them.  Why?  Because you own nobody.  And their freeewill is what they need.

Let Go.  This is where we learn so much is out of our control.

Grow.  Rembember those stresses?  You were one of them. Sorry, it is the truth.  Dummy :) But we are all human so if you want to improve who you are here is your chance.  Here is the other tip.  Don't tell anyone you are growing.

Cheers